I struggle to think of people I know who are living their lives on their own terms. I can think of people who say they are - people like Tony Robbins and Brendan Burchard who teach you to create your own status quo and live within it. Or people like Oprah who seem equipped with all the resources, experiences and hard won life lessons at every level who stand as a dark beacons of aspiration. But truth is, I know them as well as I know everyone else whose facebook status procla